tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post114099318010877221..comments2023-11-02T10:12:21.199-04:00Comments on <center>Suburban Lesbian</center>: Meltdown, Mount Vesuvius StyleSuzannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17832720652240317984noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141180355767439612006-02-28T21:32:00.000-05:002006-02-28T21:32:00.000-05:00Hey there mid amer. Thanks for your suggestion, b...Hey there mid amer. Thanks for your suggestion, but my mom and I "made up" immediately.<BR/><BR/>Her words were something like "I'm so sorry. I did not understand and do not want to upset you. Take the time you need. I won't mention it again."<BR/><BR/>She's super, my mom. We'll both get it right the next time.<BR/><BR/>SuzanneSuzannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17832720652240317984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141169976417350442006-02-28T18:39:00.000-05:002006-02-28T18:39:00.000-05:00Though I've never talked to you nor posted, I am a...Though I've never talked to you nor posted, I am an avid reader...I may be a bit overzealous when mentioning this, but I think it would be quite great if you sent your mother a letter...a letter requesting an extension for time to file this K-1...and apologize lol...am very sorry to hear about the terrible feeling of loss.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141151121746739852006-02-28T13:25:00.000-05:002006-02-28T13:25:00.000-05:00It just goes to show that no matter how mature we ...It just goes to show that no matter how mature we think we are, stress and loss can combine into a not-so-pleasant eruption of anger. Which is only natural, if you ask me.<BR/><BR/>Wendy is right that it probably made your mom see your side of this, and I am sorry that the loss is starting to make itself felt in earnest.<BR/><BR/>Hugs...Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11604097511444010759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141141514717816172006-02-28T10:45:00.000-05:002006-02-28T10:45:00.000-05:00This one is for you...Click hereThis one is for you...<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://www.hallmark.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product|10001|10051|542866|-2;-102001;11441;-102254||P1R1SO|products" REL="nofollow">Click here</A>Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09285611780339551128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141111395911284762006-02-28T02:23:00.000-05:002006-02-28T02:23:00.000-05:00I feel a little snivelly (wait, is that a word?) j...I feel a little snivelly (wait, is that a word?) just reading about your loss. My heart goes out to you. Death sucks.Melodeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05705323208228362504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141101418887580002006-02-27T23:36:00.000-05:002006-02-27T23:36:00.000-05:00If it makes you feel any better, I do taxes for a ...If it makes you feel any better, I do taxes for a living, and darn near every investment club treasurer is in the same position as you are right now. Members bugging them for the forms, not being done, feeling frustrated. Hang in there, and make somebody else do it next year!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141092094174919222006-02-27T21:01:00.000-05:002006-02-27T21:01:00.000-05:00There is no grovelling necessary. As soon as I wa...There is no grovelling necessary. As soon as I was done ranting, the mood shifted and amends were made all around. I'm never inclined to let bad feelings fester and grow, particularly not with me and my mother. We resolved it quickly. Like within 10 minutes. We're all a bit emotional these days.<BR/><BR/>Wendy tells me my mother needed to hear my message, but I sure wish I had chosen a different way of communicating.<BR/><BR/>SuzanneSuzannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17832720652240317984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141087550740725252006-02-27T19:45:00.000-05:002006-02-27T19:45:00.000-05:00Tiff has it right. Some people go off on others a...Tiff has it right. Some people go off on others all the time without a thought to how it impacts the impactees. That's not your usual style. You're entitled once in a while. Hope things are little calmer now.Career Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01404548793237278221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141066790069530762006-02-27T13:59:00.000-05:002006-02-27T13:59:00.000-05:00Mmm. Give yourself some space. I think this all ...Mmm. Give yourself some space. I think this all seems very hard and I'm surprised you guys were even trying to meet. I'm sorry; this sounds like a horrible moment. But now stop beating yourself up. It's totally understandable.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17311285554393645158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141061423831957072006-02-27T12:30:00.000-05:002006-02-27T12:30:00.000-05:00Everyone has their meltdown moments. I happen to h...Everyone has their meltdown moments. I happen to have them about every two weeks. Not very nice things flow out and I feel like quite the wicked witch afterwards. Broom and everything. But where there's love there is foregiveness. <BR/><BR/>And I think someone <I>else</I> should be Treasurer now. I personally hate counting beans. I'd rather eat them.Geeky Dragon Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11194471545198221503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141051667299496112006-02-27T09:47:00.000-05:002006-02-27T09:47:00.000-05:00One hopes elections for a new board are coming soo...One hopes elections for a new board are coming soon. You've done enough.<BR/>We all have moments of which we're not proud; your self-castigation is proof that you intend to try to learn from this moment. Some people don't even try, you know.<BR/>Call you Mama back and do a little grovelling...I'm pretty sure she'll understand.tiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01351692108818152561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7061321.post-1141049829944796882006-02-27T09:17:00.000-05:002006-02-27T09:17:00.000-05:00Awwwevery one needs their time to grieve, and a "n...Awww<BR/>every one needs their time to grieve, and a "new normal" takes some time to establish. <BR/><BR/>give your self some time, let people know you are only human and have some things to take care of for yourself before you can do the other "stuff". <BR/><BR/>take care of you.whispershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10397088424734245764noreply@blogger.com